
Motherhood and the Unconscious
The way we experience motherhood;
The way we combine motherhood with rest, with success, with failure and with joy,
Is already programmed within us before our children are born.

Motherhood changes us.
Sometimes it takes us to a place that we don´t recognize, and to a version of ourselves that we didn´t know it existed.
The thruth is that motherhood shows us unseen parts of our own story.
Motherhood can be a trampoline to flourishing and to more happiness. I help you to create your ´happy place´.
Want to learn about the link between your Motherhood and your unconscious?
Balance is not about managing the demands of being a mother, being a professional and being a woman at the same time.
Indeed balance takes shape outside of us,
but it must first happen inside.
You can create the life that you dream to have.
I help (working) mothers — especially women rebuilding their lives away from home — to transform the inner patterns that shape their experience of motherhood, work, pleasure,
and success.
How?
By uncovering the unconscious patterns that are programming you to create the results you are experiencing right now.
But awareness alone isn’t enough. You also need a plan of action.
I support you in uncovering the unconscious information and patterns that are leading you toward results that you don’t want.
I help you to transform these patterns, and support you to design a clear and realistic action plan, coherent with who you truly are in order for you to sustain your (inner) happy place.
My method: Biodecoding
Hi, my name is Pilar
I am a migrant and a single working mother of two. Years ago a long PTSS became a severe Burnout that later evolved into a painful lumbar hernia.
My way out and the way to my happy place was this questionning:
´Which part of me, that I have not seen or accepted yet, brought me here and how can I transform what I am experiencing´?
I do not promote a perfect live, perfect parenting nor absolute happiness cause I don't have them. But I found in Biodecoding a very efficient way to re-program subconscious patterns (those preventing me to achieve my goals) and to transform lives, because it is easier to identify and transform obstacles than to heavily carry them along while chasing your goals. This weight might stop you.
Cause most of the times we know how we would like to feel, we just do not know how to get there.
If you are in a process of transformation, I can help!
Hundreds of women have already worked towards their happy place in Journeys 1:1 and with MeFirst.
I have a background in Anthropology, Sociology, History and Art history, I have always been puzzled about the way people experience and interpret their reality. One of my talents is to find social patterns, and to find out how emotions shape relations and social contexts.
Teaching has been one of my biggest passions. But life has its ways, so I ended up teaching what I needed to learn the most.


Does any of this sound familiar to you?
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I struggle to reconnect with the old me after I became a mother.
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I Burnout and can´t find the way out of it.
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I am a migrant mother and struggle to find my happy place.
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I dream of having a more balanced and happy life, but don´t know how to start.
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My kids behavior drive me crazy, I don´t understand it and I don´t recognize my reactions.
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I have a kid with a difficult diagnose or a recurrent symptom.
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I feel lost professionally afterbecoming a mother.
Are you a Mom?
And if you are not, I can help you as well...
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Identify which subconscious patterns are keeping you away from the life you want to experience (those patters exist to protect you... but from what? let´s find out!)
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Know yourself better: ´I am the mother I learn to be by being a daughter´
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Identify: what is it that I really want (your happy place)? and walk towards that.
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Become a conscious mother: What the triggers have to tell about yourself and about your own history?
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Make a plan: internal movement needs action for a real transformation!
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What is your symptom and the symptom of your kid telling you? what unconscious information sustains the symptom?
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Identify what opportunity a Burnout brings to your life.
Biological decoding is complementary to medicine and does not replace any medical, psychological or psychiatric diagnose or treatment that the consultant already undergoes at the moment of consultation.
Biodecoding does not give any medical, psychological or psychiatric diagnose, does not recommend any medical, psychological or psychiatric treatment or medicines.
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